A MEMOIR

The Child I Left Behind

Heal the Child Within. Reclaim Your Life Ahead.

Healing begins the moment we find the courage to face the story we’ve been carrying all along.

The Child I Left Behind is my journey from unimaginable pain to healing, forgiveness, and hope.

My deepest hope is that somewhere within these pages, you’ll begin to believe that healing is possible for your own life, too.

More Than My Story


A memoir that invites you to believe your story can change too.

Why I Wrote This Book


I wrote this book to help others find hope, healing, and their way back to themselves.

Heal the Child Within


Healing the child within gives us permission to fully live the life ahead.

If These Words Feel Familiar...

This book may be for you if...
  • You’ve spent years being the strong one.

  • You struggle to rest because you feel responsible for everyone else.

  • You carry guilt or shame that doesn’t seem to go away.

  • You long to forgive yourself but aren’t sure how.

  • You continue to feel the effects of a difficult relationship with your mother.

  • You carry pain, guilt, or heartache because of a difficult relationship with your child.

  • You put everyone else’s needs before your own.

  • You long to understand how your past shapes your present.

  • You’re searching for hope after painful experiences.

  • You’re ready to stop surviving and begin living.

If you found yourself in any of these words, I wrote this book with you in mind.


About the Book

At nine, I was catapulted into adulthood.

At twelve, I entered an abusive relationship.

At thirteen, I became pregnant.

At fourteen, I was thrust out into the world.

At sixteen, I escaped.

With only an eighth-grade education and no safety net, I began rebuilding a life I never believed was possible—rising above poverty, abuse, and generations of pain.

From being catapulted into adulthood at nine and thrust out into the world at fourteen to earning my college degree, becoming a psychotherapist, metaphysician, entrepreneur, and award-winning author, my journey is living proof that our past may shape us, but it never has to define us.

The Child I Left Behind is more than my story.

It’s an invitation to believe that healing—and a different future—is possible for you, too.

Recognized for Its Impact

“...a resonant story of hitting rock bottom and looking for ways to undo cycles of pain and trauma.”

— Kirkus Reviews
“The memoir's wild and shocking opening chapter grabs the reader's attention and demands continued reading.”

— Judge, 33rd Annual Writer’s Digest Self-Published Book Awards
“A compelling, page-turning journey of guilt, forgiveness, and freedom—Anjalia speaks from a place few authors can touch.”

— Brianna McCabe, Editor

A Personal Note

If you’re considering reading this book, I want you to know something.

I didn’t write it because I have all the answers.

I wrote it because I know what it feels like to live with fear, guilt, shame, and uncertainty.

I know what it feels like to wonder if healing is really possible.

And I know what it feels like to discover that it is.

My hope is that somewhere within these pages, you’ll find a piece of your own story... and the courage to believe that your future can become something different from your past.

With gratitude,

— Anjalia

Your past does not define you.


Your future is still yours to create.


Heal the child within. Rewrite the life ahead.